Every student should have duct tape and WD-40, because with these two materials you can fix anything. If it moves and it shouldn't, use duct tape. If it doesn't move and it should, use WD-40.

if you bring those two don't forget a blue tarp. for when the first two don't fix it you can always put under the tarp and act like it never existed

Often people in high positions in industry turn out to be born under the sign of Virgo. In power, however, Virgos sometimes have trouble getting along with their coworkers. They have difficulty communicating their displeasure without being biting and critical. If a Virgo boss thinks John acted badly at the office party, he may call him on the carpet, saying something like "John, you acted like a perfect idiot last Friday night. This behavior of yours is pathological. You had seventeen Scotches." Diplomatic, Virgos are not. But their ability to analyze complex situations is at the least astute.

Maybe you're trying to steer too much. You've got your hands on the rudder and/or the oars and you're trying to go exactly along this imaginary course that you've plotted for yourself. However, sometimes you should just loosen your hands, sit back and relax, and let the wind and the waves take you along. After all, it's taking you in the correct general direction, isn't it?

I'm saying that partly because you talk about a relationship so scientifically. It's like you think you should have one and it should be like this therefore you're gonna just grab someone and do what should be done.

Truly, a relationship is about sharing your life. However, it's not something you have to consciously do -- if you really like someone, you'll do it naturally, without thinking, and without feeling like it's a tiring thing to do. There's no conscious action to it -- if you force yourself to like someone or dislike someone or do this or not do that, it's gonna hurt a lot and ultimately it's not gonna turn out well.

And don't you feel that, at least with good friends, you might not know every bit of their lives, but when you start talking it is as though time had stopped since you last met them? And you can laugh and joke and catch up like it's the most natural thing to do?

I'm not sure what else to say, just a) take care and b) you're not alone at all and c) don't let things get you down.

每颗心上某一个地方
总有个记忆挥不散
每个深夜某一个地方
总有着最深的思量
世间万千的变幻
爱把有情的人分两端
心若知道灵犀的方向
那怕不能够朝夕相伴
城里的月光把梦照亮
请温暖他心房
看透了人间聚散
能不能多点快乐片段
城里的月光把梦照亮
请守护它身旁
若有一天能重逢
让幸福撒满整个夜晚